How To Use The Rule Of 3

 

"He who has a why can bear any how" Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche 1844-1900

The purpose of tonight's talk is to share with you a technique that will help you write speeches with ease. As many of you know I have not had much trouble in this area. In fact with a busy life schedule I used this rule of three technique to completed my CTM in 3 months then I took a break from writing speeches and then completed my ATM-B in another 3 months. In my first year I had completed 20 speeches talking at 4 clubs and 2 social events and collected another 25 topics with several points on each topic ready for the next level. I am not saying this to impress you but impress upon you that writing speeches can be a simple task. Maybe not always easy but it is simple. Especially when you apply the rule of 3.

I did have some advantage and that was a good library of notes, quotes and word pictures which is now full of. Even with out this site the web is filled with these things so that point is not that much of an advantage. I think the main reason why I was able to do so well is I had a clear purpose for joining Toast Masters and did not hesitate to get going and risk making mistakes, some embarrassment and all the rest of the stuff that goes along with inexperience.

My "why" was clear. To paraphrase the quote I started with "When you have a clear why the how comes easy"

Writing the speech: Rule of three

This principle I learned from Evelyn Woods dynamic learning course. She says that it is known that people learn better in 3’s. Like in learning you would read something, write it and speak it. A similar principle applies to speaking.

Rule of 3. Three points, three paragraphs, one theme

You will want to use 3 points to illustrate that theme. In each paragraph create a point that explains the theme. The points could be:

1) A word picture/anecdote /short story or illustration.
2) Some statistics or facts.
3) A personal experience or experience of a person.

Here this principle is explained in a funny but true saying. You want to tell the audience what your going to tell them, then tell them, then tell them what you told them. It makes writing a speech easy and gets you message across.

Tell them what your going to tell them, then tell them, then tell them what you told them.

3 paragraphs with a point in each paragraph said in a different way. Word picture, statistic or fact and a personal experience or the experience of a real person. That's it, a simple, easy, effective way to write a speech.

Add a couple jokes and a quote or two and you will sound like a professional communicating a clear and easy to absorb message.

Make sure to add a joke or 2 because "The mind can only absorb what the seat can endure" Add some vocal variety, gestures and body movement, pauses and other little techniques that we learn here at Toast Masters and list your name with the local speaking bureau and earn an extra 50k a year.

Example of how I lay out my paper prior to filling in the text;

Speech Title

Opening: Here I come up with a line or two, a joke or quote to start my talk with some impact. Be excited and enthusiastic about your speech.

Body:

Point one, use a word picture, anecdote or short story to illustrate your point.

(insert quotes and/or a little humor here)

Point two, use a personal experience or experience of real people that the audience can relate to.

(insert quotes and/or a little humor here)

Point three, use some statistics or facts to communicate the speech. 

(These points can be in any order that works best for your topic. Then add a couple of jokes and quotes and practice your delivery several times)

Conclusion: Close with an strong statement and or review the three point to solidify what you were trying to communicate.

 

Additional tips to speech preparation:

1) Gather resources and continue feeding your resource bank with quotes, stories, articles, studies that are of interest to you. Keep a ongoing list of things that really interest you, passions, exciting things. I suggest 3 file folders - 1) Topics that interest me. 2) Good quotes and stories. 3) Facts, statistics and resources.

(The use of word pictures is know to be one of the most effective ways of getting a point across)

2) Lay out your paper with: (It is so much easier to chose a topic when the speech structure is in place)

Opening, Body - Point one - Point two - Point three, Closing

3) Define your purpose. Understand who your audience is and determine what you want them to do. (Understand your point - entertain them - educate - move to action etc.)

4) Choose your topic and think of 3 points. (A story, a facts or statistic, a human experience) Add a joke and a quotes and apply some TM techniques. (Vocal variety, gestures, body movement, etc.)

4) Make a rough copy and practice it once or twice and add or subtract words or sentences as you feel the need, then make you final draft and practice it several times with various techniques.

5) Watch speakers, trainers, leaders with a purpose to notice their body movement, hand gestures, vocal variety and how they organize the speech.

Some ideas on choosing a topic:

1) Think and write down all the subjects that interest you most. (This is sometimes called blue sky thinking or dream writing) These are your passions. What are you passionate about? Everybody can talk all day long about their passions but they bog down when they try to write a 10 min speech.

2) Answer this question. What would you do if you had unlimited resources and no fear of anything. What would you do with your time? This may be some of your loves and passions.

3) As I mentioned earlier start a file and continually add to it as you come across things in life and think of things you really like.